BDSM. An acronym for bondage, domination and sadomasochism, and it refers to these kinks. The D sometimes stands for discipline, and the S, sometimes for submission. People who are into BDSM usually enjoy consensual erotic games that can involve tying someone up, ordering someone around, or exploring sensations like pain. BDSM is meant to be consensual, and it requires excellent communication to do safely. People discuss ahead of time what they’re interested in doing and what is too far. People who do BDSM respectfully stay within the boundaries they’ve agreed on with their partner.