Sexual roles. In bi and gay slang, the “top” is the person sticking their fingers, penis, or a sex toy inside their partner; the person taking in the fingers, penis or toy is the “bottom.” Someone who likes doing both is said to be “versatile.” Sexual roles have nothing to do with a guy’s appearance or with how he presents his gender: it’s a matter of what he enjoys in bed, that’s all.
In this third post on having sex with women and AFAB people, we look at all kinds of ways you can play with a partner's body to make them feel amazing.Continue Reading
In this second post on having sex with women and AFAB folks—cisgender, trans or nonbinary—we’ll go over the ways their bodies are wired for pleasure.Continue Reading
We can heal from internalized biphobia and homophobia, and have fulfilling lives as bi+ and bisexual men. Here are ways of coping with these poisonous feelings.Continue Reading