Sex toy. An object that’s made to give sexual pleasure. Some sex toys vibrate to give extra stimulation; we often call these vibrators. Some sex toys are made to penetrate the vagina or anus, and we often call these dildos. Some are made to stimulate the clitoris; these are often called vibrating bullets or eggs, because of their shape. Some others are an object a penis can penetrate, like a popular sex toy called a Fleshlight. These are just some of the possibilities. A lot of sex toys are sold in sex shops, but many people use household items too for sexual pleasure, like a shower head, an electric toothbrush, a zucchini or a hairbrush handle.
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