Lubricant. Lubricant—lube for short—is a liquid or jelly people can put on a penis or a sex toy to make it slide more easily during sex, and to reduce friction. This helps for vaginal or anal penetration, and it’s essential for anal sex. A lot of people use it to make masturbation easier too, especially folks with a circumcised penis.
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In this second post on having sex with women and AFAB folks—cisgender, trans or nonbinary—we’ll go over the ways their bodies are wired for pleasure.Continue Reading
We can heal from internalized biphobia and homophobia, and have fulfilling lives as bi+ and bisexual men. Here are ways of coping with these poisonous feelings.Continue Reading